Tough distinction I guess. When was your last serious relationship with a girl in the UK?

comment by Bãles left boot (U22081)
posted 1 minute ago
Tough distinction I guess. When was your last serious relationship with a girl in the UK?
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Does that define whether someone's a sxe tourist ?

It's an indicator to me as to what's going on. My old friend had an issue with Western women because, effectively, they weren't subservient. It's about establishing a pattern of behaviour and exploring the reasons behind it. Or not, whatever.

He was very honest about why he did what he did and why he liked what he did etc. When he left and he knew we'd likely not see each other again, anyway.

I used to be attractive to Western women that I find attractive

I am no longer attractive to western women that I find attractive

I am still attractive to non Western women that I find attractive.

That attraction can not by definition be motivated by money, because I do not find women who are motivated by money attractive

I do not believe I have ever travelled anywhere solely because I was attracted to their red light district type entertainment

comment by Bãles left boot (U22081)
posted 15 seconds ago
It's an indicator to me as to what's going on. My old friend had an issue with Western women because, effectively, they weren't subservient. It's about establishing a pattern of behaviour and exploring the reasons behind it. Or not, whatever.

He was very honest about why he did what he did and why he liked what he did etc. When he left and he knew we'd likely not see each other again, anyway.
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Liking women being subservient isn't proof that someone's a sxe tourist though.

I have never demanded that a woman behave in a subservient manner,other than banter and am no more likely to do so with a girl out of a bar than a girl out of the library. I would never tale advantage of any woman in that way.

I don't see that as a huge problem in itself anyway. I mean, s3x tourism has its problems for sure. But in an consenting, equitable environment where the red light district is well regulated and everything.

I was more referring to the 'quiet country girl type who doesn't know any better' that I was told you find in Thailand and Cambodia. Exactly the type that end up getting trafficked.

I've never had an interaction with any kind of girl that's about subservience.

I've had dominant role plays with a Ukrainian bird but she was into it, and I also showed her respect outside of that role play.

Funny, I dated a proper feminist for a while. For all the rhetoric she loved being dominated in the bedroom. Pele are strange

Haha. People*

Look, I am totally and massively against sxe trafficking of any women or girls. I have a deep emotional objection to it.

That sort of thing does go on in SEA, but it's not something that a tourist encounters in the red light district. Its in unknown places and mainly perpetuated by the khmers.

We go again.

Sizzle turns up for the s3x chat

comment by Bãles left boot (U22081)
posted 55 seconds ago
Funny, I dated a proper feminist for a while. For all the rhetoric she loved being dominated in the bedroom. Pele are strange
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I get what you mean about hypocrisy but I'm not sure if that counts. If the woman gets what she wants in bed then can she really be said to be being dominated?

I wouldn't be able to date a feminist I don't think, and I think most feminists would find me repulsive. Doesn't mean I'm bad person or am bad to women though. I'm not, I'm a very caring person.

comment by Dim Sim Flung (U22695)
posted less than a minute ago
comment by Bãles left boot (U22081)
posted 55 seconds ago
Funny, I dated a proper feminist for a while. For all the rhetoric she loved being dominated in the bedroom. Pele are strange
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I get what you mean about hypocrisy but I'm not sure if that counts. If the woman gets what she wants in bed then can she really be said to be being dominated?
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Interesting point. Though I'd say she was feminist/lefty to the point of disputing typical gender roles etc. She was so about it. Then as soon as we got our clothes off I was the man and she was the girl.

I find it hard to see the epstein stuff as 'proper' sxe trafficking. For someone who seems to talk about it a lot though, I've actually done very little research into what went on, and what I am aware of I definitely agree was unacceptable behaviour. I still remain sceptical though about the stories,and motivations of some of the claimants. Maybe I'm wrong, that's just my hunch on it.

Yeah I think you need to explore why you feel like that.

I've watched a couple of documentaries on Epstein and read a bit about the case as it went through the news. There's a reason she's in prison and he was killed. There's a reason they paid Giuffre to keep quiet.

Anyway, I have nothing further to add.

Probably for the best.

House plants or a house pet?

I'm sceptical about the documentaries.ive not seen them but I get the impression they were sensationalist. Afraid toon of what I understand was claimed in those was given any credibility in the Maxwell trial.

Golden retriever.

comment by Dim Sim Flung (U22695)
posted 3 minutes ago
I find it hard to see the epstein stuff as 'proper' sxe trafficking. For someone who seems to talk about it a lot though, I've actually done very little research into what went on, and what I am aware of I definitely agree was unacceptable behaviour. I still remain sceptical though about the stories,and motivations of some of the claimants. Maybe I'm wrong, that's just my hunch on it.
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No it isn’t, both Epstein and Maxwell are peodophiles who trafficked and abused underage girls.

It’s not complicated.

Never had a dog before but I like the idea. Mrs B wants a cat. I'm happy with getting more plants