comment by TBag. (U11806)
posted about 13 hours ago
Tacofino
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Who’s he play for?

comment by Big Deki Energy (U3338)
posted 56 minutes ago
comment by Dim not sing - JA606 Woman rescuing champion (U22695)
posted 8 hours, 23 minutes ago
i lost contact with that woman whose life i saved btw. we were in email contact for a little while. then it just stopped.

thought that was a bit strange tbh.
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Bit rude if you saved her life.
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i just find it staggering tbh. not only did i save her life, but i put myself in extreme danger to do so.

as i said in my last email to her, if she felt like she didn't want to see me again because it brought back bad memories or something, then fine, i accept that (and i only wanted to meet as friends anyway and had suggested she invited the other guys we met that day to join us), but to just ghost me and not even reply to my email after what we went through, i find astonishing behaviour.

still got nothing back.

I can only think that she felt that she'd always be in my debt, and just didn't want to feel like that. i supppose i could kind of understand that. but still, i would have thought the minimum she could do would be to explain that to me before breaking contact.

the last email I got from her said, "You were very instrumental that day. I may have panicked, were you not there beside me in the water."

which is frankly the most ridiculous assessment of a situation i've ever heard.

she literally leapt on to my shoulders in a desperate attempt to survive whilst screaming for me to help her, and clung to me for dear life in the water for 10 minutes as she screamed. she then spent the next at least 30 minutes on the boat, clinging on to me whilst shaking uncontrollably, whilst still occasionally screaming hysterically as i calmed her down.

and she says afterwards that if i hadn't been there besides her she might have panicked

comment by Dim not sing - JA606 Woman rescuing champion (U22695)
posted 5 minutes ago
I can only think that she felt that she'd always be in my debt, and just didn't want to feel like that. i supppose i could kind of understand that. but still, i would have thought the minimum she could do would be to explain that to me before breaking contact.

the last email I got from her said, "You were very instrumental that day. I may have panicked, were you not there beside me in the water."

which is frankly the most ridiculous assessment of a situation i've ever heard.

she literally leapt on to my shoulders in a desperate attempt to survive whilst screaming for me to help her, and clung to me for dear life in the water for 10 minutes as she screamed. she then spent the next at least 30 minutes on the boat, clinging on to me whilst shaking uncontrollably, whilst still occasionally screaming hysterically as i calmed her down.

and she says afterwards that if i hadn't been there besides her she might have panicked
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1 event, 2 different versions of what happened.

Some things never change

Well it’s Groundhog Day.


Again.

comment by Big Deki Energy (U3338)
posted 5 minutes ago
comment by Dim not sing - JA606 Woman rescuing champion (U22695)
posted 5 minutes ago
I can only think that she felt that she'd always be in my debt, and just didn't want to feel like that. i supppose i could kind of understand that. but still, i would have thought the minimum she could do would be to explain that to me before breaking contact.

the last email I got from her said, "You were very instrumental that day. I may have panicked, were you not there beside me in the water."

which is frankly the most ridiculous assessment of a situation i've ever heard.

she literally leapt on to my shoulders in a desperate attempt to survive whilst screaming for me to help her, and clung to me for dear life in the water for 10 minutes as she screamed. she then spent the next at least 30 minutes on the boat, clinging on to me whilst shaking uncontrollably, whilst still occasionally screaming hysterically as i calmed her down.

and she says afterwards that if i hadn't been there besides her she might have panicked
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1 event, 2 different versions of what happened.


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when we 6 of us met the same evening, everyone had the same view and everyone said that i had saved her life.

what i have said is not open to interpretation and is not subjective, it is fact. i have not imagined her screaming my name for me to help her. i have not imagined her clinging to me to survive. ive not imagined her shaking in my arms for 30 minutes.

Maybe someone could explain the events that day as they actually happened, rather than my contrived mickey mouse bullshti version.

I think that would help the readers

thanks in advance

I was on a tourist boat going to see the dolphins. There was a woman on the boat who was quite attractive, and I thought about touching her.

After a while a wave came and it tilted the boat. We were sitting on the roof of the boat, so in that moment, i took the chance to take advantage of the wave. I slid towards the woman as if i was out of control. as i bumped into her, i managed to grab her bo0b and her ass.

"are you alright ?" she asked, looking a bit panicky.

i didn't answer, because i was in the midst of making myself topple over the side of the boat, and pulling her in with me.

"oh my god", the other people on the boat screamed as me and the woman hit the water.

"i'm ok, i'm ok", i shouted back, my hands all over the woman under the water.

"i can't swim" she shouted. "that's fine" i said as my hand moved between her legs. "we'll be alright, don't worry".

"thank you" she said, "thank you". "do you need to rub my pusys like that though?" "yes" i said, out of breath "it aid's bouyancy until they can get us back aboard.

after a few minutes, the skipper got us back on the ladder and to safety. "that was really good fun" i said, but she said how awful it was and accused me of molesting her !!!!! after a while she calmed down and thanked me saying that she might have panicked, had i not been there besides her in the water.

i tried emailing her but she didn't reply.

the story everyone wanted

I knew that it didn't aid bouyancy obviously, it was just a good funny chat up line to use, because i knew that normal women like a) funny chat up lines and b) being touched between their legs (it's a sensitive area on a woman's body), so i assumed she'd laugh like a decent woman would and just enjoy the moment, and not be a pain in the ass about it.

i have to pay for things like that, and she was getting it for free ffs

Skipper was a xntu as well. Shouted at me for mabsterbating on the boat when everyone was snorkeling.

After what id just been through

comment by Dim not sing - JA606 Woman rescuing champion (U22695)
posted 2 hours ago
comment by Big Deki Energy (U3338)
posted 5 minutes ago
comment by Dim not sing - JA606 Woman rescuing champion (U22695)
posted 5 minutes ago
I can only think that she felt that she'd always be in my debt, and just didn't want to feel like that. i supppose i could kind of understand that. but still, i would have thought the minimum she could do would be to explain that to me before breaking contact.

the last email I got from her said, "You were very instrumental that day. I may have panicked, were you not there beside me in the water."

which is frankly the most ridiculous assessment of a situation i've ever heard.

she literally leapt on to my shoulders in a desperate attempt to survive whilst screaming for me to help her, and clung to me for dear life in the water for 10 minutes as she screamed. she then spent the next at least 30 minutes on the boat, clinging on to me whilst shaking uncontrollably, whilst still occasionally screaming hysterically as i calmed her down.

and she says afterwards that if i hadn't been there besides her she might have panicked
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1 event, 2 different versions of what happened.


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when we 6 of us met the same evening, everyone had the same view and everyone said that i had saved her life.

what i have said is not open to interpretation and is not subjective, it is fact. i have not imagined her screaming my name for me to help her. i have not imagined her clinging to me to survive. ive not imagined her shaking in my arms for 30 minutes.
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I wasn’t digging you out.

I was saying it’s mad how 2 people interpret the same event.

Most women are mental.

comment by Big Deki Energy (U3338)
posted 5 minutes ago
comment by Dim not sing - JA606 Woman rescuing champion (U22695)
posted 2 hours ago
comment by Big Deki Energy (U3338)
posted 5 minutes ago
comment by Dim not sing - JA606 Woman rescuing champion (U22695)
posted 5 minutes ago
I can only think that she felt that she'd always be in my debt, and just didn't want to feel like that. i supppose i could kind of understand that. but still, i would have thought the minimum she could do would be to explain that to me before breaking contact.

the last email I got from her said, "You were very instrumental that day. I may have panicked, were you not there beside me in the water."

which is frankly the most ridiculous assessment of a situation i've ever heard.

she literally leapt on to my shoulders in a desperate attempt to survive whilst screaming for me to help her, and clung to me for dear life in the water for 10 minutes as she screamed. she then spent the next at least 30 minutes on the boat, clinging on to me whilst shaking uncontrollably, whilst still occasionally screaming hysterically as i calmed her down.

and she says afterwards that if i hadn't been there besides her she might have panicked
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1 event, 2 different versions of what happened.


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when we 6 of us met the same evening, everyone had the same view and everyone said that i had saved her life.

what i have said is not open to interpretation and is not subjective, it is fact. i have not imagined her screaming my name for me to help her. i have not imagined her clinging to me to survive. ive not imagined her shaking in my arms for 30 minutes.
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I wasn’t digging you out.

I was saying it’s mad how 2 people interpret the same event.

Most women are mental.
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Yeah there’s obviously nobody f*cking mental on this thread.

comment by Dim not sing - JA606 Woman rescuing champion (U22695)
posted 1 hour, 49 minutes ago
I was on a tourist boat going to see the dolphins. There was a woman on the boat who was quite attractive, and I thought about touching her.

After a while a wave came and it tilted the boat. We were sitting on the roof of the boat, so in that moment, i took the chance to take advantage of the wave. I slid towards the woman as if i was out of control. as i bumped into her, i managed to grab her bo0b and her ass.

"are you alright ?" she asked, looking a bit panicky.

i didn't answer, because i was in the midst of making myself topple over the side of the boat, and pulling her in with me.

"oh my god", the other people on the boat screamed as me and the woman hit the water.

"i'm ok, i'm ok", i shouted back, my hands all over the woman under the water.

"i can't swim" she shouted. "that's fine" i said as my hand moved between her legs. "we'll be alright, don't worry".

"thank you" she said, "thank you". "do you need to rub my pusys like that though?" "yes" i said, out of breath "it aid's bouyancy until they can get us back aboard.

after a few minutes, the skipper got us back on the ladder and to safety. "that was really good fun" i said, but she said how awful it was and accused me of molesting her !!!!! after a while she calmed down and thanked me saying that she might have panicked, had i not been there besides her in the water.

i tried emailing her but she didn't reply.
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Wow, no wonder she didn't email back.

Fair enough Deki. She knows or did know that i almost certainly prevented her from.drowning thay day. She just seems to have rewritten it in her head for aome reason.

But regardless, whether she thinks i saved her or just had a pleasant swim alomgside her, ive no idea why she decided to ghost me.

Get a job.

comment by Dim not sing - JA606 Woman rescuing champion (U22695)
posted 2 minutes ago
Fair enough Deki. She knows or did know that i almost certainly prevented her from.drowning thay day. She just seems to have rewritten it in her head for aome reason.

But regardless, whether she thinks i saved her or just had a pleasant swim alomgside her, ive no idea why she decided to ghost me.
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People re-write history to suit their narrative, whatever they may be!

It doesn't actually matter why she ghosted, she did.

Move on and don't give it another minutes thought.

You cannot control how other people behave, just focus on yourself and be the best you can be.

#thinkingaboutbecomingalifecoach

Im not bothered about it. It doesnt consume my thoughts.

I just wondered this morming, why did someone whose life i saved ghost me.

It's a reasonable thing to wonder.

comment by Dim not sing - JA606 Woman rescuing champion (U22695)
posted 3 minutes ago
Im not bothered about it. It doesnt consume my thoughts.

I just wondered this morming, why did someone whose life i saved ghost me.

It's a reasonable thing to wonder.
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Have you noticed you aways try and justify yourself?

Rather than just agreeing with what I said, you felt the need to tell me you are not bothered by it and it doesn't consume your thoughts.. although you admitted you thought about it this morning

You seem to take everything as an insult even though my original comment wasn't.

I noticed Edin called you a narcissist the other day.

Narcissists have such fragile egos that they cannot take on any form of criticism.

Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others.

I've become a bit of an expert on narcissists.

Not calling you a narcissist of course.

Edin did though.

Do you think it's possible you could be?

comment by Big Deki Energy (U3338)
posted 18 minutes ago
Not calling you a narcissist of course.

Edin did though.

Do you think it's possible you could be?
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Im just not going to engage in your purile discourse tbh.

going to flight club in victoria with work today

comment by Dim not sing - JA606 Woman rescuing champion (U22695)
posted 4 minutes ago
comment by Big Deki Energy (U3338)
posted 18 minutes ago
Not calling you a narcissist of course.

Edin did though.

Do you think it's possible you could be?
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Im just not going to engage in your purile discourse tbh.
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Of course. Apologies.

Tell us more about you bashing one out on the boat while the rest of the party were snorkelling

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