Yeah shipping 5 to Brentford pretty telling

I went to put a bet on Arsenal the second saints had scored, by the time I got round to it Arsenal had equalized ffs. Most NID comeback ever.

Just catching up but had a few drinks ( golf day )

J I hope you get the therapy you desperately need.

How was the golf day

We should play a round

Even I don't post to ask myself for a game of golf.

Thinking me and Hengy are the same person confirms you need help mate

Played shiet got drunk

Sounds good

Definitely next summer we’ll do a 18 together

Where did you play today?

Can you imagine being a professional careers advisor, and your brother in law being out of work for 7 years and you never offering to look at his cv?

comment by Phenom (U20037)
posted 6 minutes ago
Where did you play today?
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I play at abbey hill in MK

went 2 the beech 2day
nice watchin the geeses n ducks preparin too fly south n squirrels rushin around buryin stuff

animals r grate

Squirrels and ducks

he's a con man as I see it.
my whole life has been victim of a confidence trickster within my family.

what are your thoughts on Jack Doherty the 20 yr old YouTuber who has amassed millions from streaming ?

comment by Optional Screen Name (U23088)
posted 8 hours, 2 minutes ago
he's a con man as I see it.
my whole life has been victim of a confidence trickster within my family.
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this might have been unfair. i really don't know.
he can be nice. i am probably being unfair.
hopefully i will find a job soon and move on from all this.
thanks for your patience. depression is horrible.
am feeling brighter today.
hope it's a good game and good result v brighton.

comment by Optional Screen Name (U23088)
posted 9 hours, 50 minutes ago
Can you imagine being a professional careers advisor, and your brother in law being out of work for 7 years and you never offering to look at his cv?
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You should have gone to her. It's not as if you had anything else to do. Time to drop this victim complex and draw a line in the sand.

Move on and get your bum in gear.

Should have gone to her? She's fully aware of the situation as is the whole family. It's for someone to offer help, not for people to ask for it.

comment by Optional Screen Name (U23088)
posted 2 minutes ago
Should have gone to her? She's fully aware of the situation as is the whole family. It's for someone to offer help, not for people to ask for it.
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But she has a job and you don't. You need her more than she needs you. Swallow you entitlement and go to her.

She doesn't need me at all in any way whatsoever. I'm not saying she does.
I don't blame her specifically (and it is not her fault in any way whatsoever that I am in this situation), but it's just an indication of the fact that him saying he really wants me to succeed is balls. His wife is a career advisor and has never offered to provide any kind of advice. If he wanted me to get out of this situation his wife would have spoken to me.
That's obvious to me.

Or they are waiting for you to ask mate…..maybe they think you just aren’t interested in sorting stuff out

Ask for help and you may get surprised

If they tell you to do one you know once and for all they couldn’t give a rats

if you don't have a good relationship he might feel like you won't want his help, that you'd find it insulting or demeaning. My family knows to never talk to me about career stuff because I don't want them getting involved. They might think you're like that if you've never approached them.

There's two sides to every story, it doesn't have to be that he either has been incredibly helpful or he doesn't want you to succeed