defoes cousin has died, hes on way home

kimchi

I think i already made the point that i wasnt playing it down, but i think its pretty fair to say that the death of an immediate member of family is likely to be more upsetting than say, your cousin's cousin.

I also agree with Weare when he sasys that friends can sometimes be far more important in one's life than a distant relative.

And Cityblueloz, i think the more well known saying is "You might be able to choose your friends, but you cant choose your family", which kind of refers to the point Weare & myself are making, that friends are often thought more of than family.

Although i appreciate this isnt always the case - but i was just adding it on here for debate purposes.

i think we're over complicating this one lads

Chicken you heartless sod ...............

Sad news to hear, thoughts with him and family

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or did any of you lot not say to yourself it could be JD that is a jinx when it comes to deaths in his family sorry i shouldn't have said that i was only joking











lighten up people i'm only joking

Feel sorry for Defoe, only footballer I've met when he came to my school ( his old school also). His cousin was in my year (not the cousin who died).

RIP Hannah.

Just seen the news.

Feel terrible for Jermaine. What an awful time it's been for him and his family in recent years.

Sending best wishes.

what a terrible way to go. truly awful.

Any one seen what she looks like? I would of.