As an aside, ‘I may destroy you’ good tv show

comment by Edinspur (U1109)
posted 4 hours, 44 minutes ago
comment by Movies (U23088)
posted 6 hours, 10 minutes ago
Was just reading that it's rape in the UK if you remove a condom with the woman's permission.
This apparently includes if you say the condom broke.
I can see some really messy situations here?


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Am no going to comment on the second part of that. But the first part is 100% spot on.
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It could lead to situations where you're arguing whether the man deliberately caused the condom to break, or was aware that the condom was broken and didn't immediately stop or tell her.
This is not territory I would associate with a woman being raped or a man being a rapist.
Stopping immediately if a woman changes her mind for some reason and says no is one thing, stopping immediately because you're vaguely aware that something feels a bit different is another.
There are also risks to a man of the condom breaking, and I'm not aware of it being a crime if the woman does not tell the man if she believes the condom has broken.
In fact in the situations above, it might be that the woman was aware the condom was broken and chose at the time not to say anything.
I can see that there could be offenses here by a man or by a woman, but to me they do not sit comfortably with the crime or offence or act of rape.

Could you be a rapist for accidently putting a condom on inside out, and then not noticing it had split open?

comment by Phenom (U20037)
posted 14 hours, 27 minutes ago
comment by Hengy (U9129)
posted 4 hours ago
Phenom?
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Yes mate
How’s the golf going?
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Only been on the driving range recently due to weather but did have a lesson a few weeks ago.

My son’s driver broke the other day so got him a TSi2 for Xmas.
£200 brand new from American golf. I know it’s a few years old now but looks so good.

Thinking about keeping it myself as need a better one

I swear some of these articles are written just to wind people up

"It was only later that I started to realise the gravity of what had happened. Had the man entered my changing room seconds earlier, he would’ve seen me in nothing but my knickers. I would’ve been facing away from him, instead of towards him about to exit."

Oh my god, once he had seen my bottom...can you even imagine what he would have done?

I might as well have just been a cave woman. He would have been incapable of not ravaging me.
It dawned on me that that is the gravity of what happened.

in fairness I haven't given the full context there, as she reckons the guy knew she was in there and still tried to open the curtain.
people don't half take themselves seriously though.

the gravity dawned on me

comment by Hengy (U9129)
posted 27 minutes ago
comment by Phenom (U20037)
posted 14 hours, 27 minutes ago
comment by Hengy (U9129)
posted 4 hours ago
Phenom?
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Yes mate
How’s the golf going?
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Only been on the driving range recently due to weather but did have a lesson a few weeks ago.

My son’s driver broke the other day so got him a TSi2 for Xmas.
£200 brand new from American golf. I know it’s a few years old now but looks so good.

Thinking about keeping it myself as need a better one
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was the lesson worthwhile?

i'm being a bit of a dkic. obviously you can't do that.

but just...

somebody could have seen...my...bottom.

i've only just realised the gravity.

sorry, that's a poor take on my part.
it's just writing to a national newspaper because somebody nearly saw your bottom. just like....i mean.

Don’t think I can handle the match thread today

comment by Del Big Ange Postecoglou (U22000)
posted 8 minutes ago
Don’t think I can handle the match thread today
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Just stay off it. That’s what I do these days and just put any thoughts on this thread

Is it possible to hold both of the following views?

1. It is completely and utterly unacceptable and totally out of order and inexcusable for somebody to open the curtain of a changing room in a department store, knowing there is a woman in the changing room who he is not acquainted with.

2. it's ridiculous that someone would have such a high opinion of themselves that they would write to a national newspaper about the "gravity" of the fact that somebody almost saw her bottom without her consent

?

If not, then I'll just go with 1.

Don’t think ange is doing a good job at all at the moment but the absences in the squad is mental and such a factor

Pretty much written off spurs until there’s a lot more back, we have to see some positivity though hopefully from the youngsters and could easily still get a win today

Your son good at golf H?

comment by Phenom (U20037)
posted 20 seconds ago
Your son good at golf H?
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He only started at the start of the year

Better than you though?

No

He’s a more just go out on the course and play while I’m more of get on the range/Sim and practice.

Course is best place to practice thought you not get on the course much?

Don’t have the time to go tbh plus it’s freezing

Rain and puddles more of an issue tbf

What’s your handicap?