open letter my tranny mates.

Even though I may not see eye 2 eye with all my tranny posters I still love you because we support the same team and we are all really passionate about our team.

Personally I'm quite stressed out at the mo
I've just had an offer accepted on a house we want to buy, however the only the reason we're doing this is because my son is unhappy with the situation with the foster lad he is sharing a room with.

we love this kid but sometimes its hard to hear " I hate you" and " why am I here" when your trying your best to look after someone else's child.

We're doing the best we can and slowly making progress but it is emotionally draining.

Personally me I know I need to be better and mature person but I love being me .

I'm simplistic and try to be happy and kind-ish to others, It doesn't always translate that way to others though and for that I apologise

Sorry about the name change but I try to use this site a therapy thing type thing for me

love you all

“why am I here" when your trying your best to look after someone else's child.

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Because if god forbid something was to happen to you or Mrs, that there would be someone who would look after your young uns with the same care you exhibit for this foster child.

All that is needed for evil to prevail is for good men to do nothing

comment by Redinthehead - FreeGaza - فلسطين (U1860)
posted 5 minutes ago
“why am I here" when your trying your best to look after someone else's child.

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Because if god forbid something was to happen to you or Mrs, that there would be someone who would look after your young uns with the same care you exhibit for this foster child.

All that is needed for evil to prevail is for good men to do nothing
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we're trying our best but sometimes it just feels as though it's not good enough even though it is.

I think we're just too tough on each other tbf

comment by The Joker (U22336)
posted 7 minutes ago
comment by Redinthehead - FreeGaza - فلسطين (U1860)
posted 5 minutes ago
“why am I here" when your trying your best to look after someone else's child.

———————
Because if god forbid something was to happen to you or Mrs, that there would be someone who would look after your young uns with the same care you exhibit for this foster child.

All that is needed for evil to prevail is for good men to do nothing
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we're trying our best but sometimes it just feels as though it's not good enough even though it is.

I think we're just too tough on each other tbf
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Mate, that’s something you need to get used to if you’re going to stick at this fostering lark. These kids are more often from troubled backgrounds and have had to deal with all sorts of shiite. You just need to be thick skinned and accept it as just part of the job. If you can’t detach yourself then maybe you need to rethink, for your own sake 👍

comment by The Joker (U22336)
posted 12 minutes ago
comment by Redinthehead - FreeGaza - فلسطين (U1860)
posted 5 minutes ago
“why am I here" when your trying your best to look after someone else's child.

———————
Because if god forbid something was to happen to you or Mrs, that there would be someone who would look after your young uns with the same care you exhibit for this foster child.

All that is needed for evil to prevail is for good men to do nothing
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we're trying our best but sometimes it just feels as though it's not good enough even though it is.

I think we're just too tough on each other tbf
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120%

In time, I’m sure these kids will appreciate your input

comment by Terminator1 (U1863)
posted 33 minutes ago
comment by Inbefore (U20589)
posted 31 minutes ago
called it after about 20 mins in the mf was pathetic, seriously they need Hendo and Milner to hold their hands and set the standard the lot of em can fack off, spineless lazy caants.
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Grow up
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exactly, they do need to grow up and grow some balls.

Jeez. Some people are taking one bad result as though it’s the end of the world

comment by Tiddles (U17634)
posted less than a minute ago
Jeez. Some people are taking one bad result as though it’s the end of the world
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really? im proud of them gr8 run and we go again but that performance was a joke, as i said how many wake up calls does this team need, takes them forever to get going and until now theyve had the luck, today that ran out. Anyway just because theyve been outstanding doesnt mean we cant call them out or w.e when they put in sheite like that, they were sheite for majority of previous games too recently still the persist... Anyway some people need to stop being snowflakes when someone says something not positive or praising lol.

gd news is games coming thick n fast to hopefully get over it. one every 3 or 4 days again

comment by Inbefore (U20589)
posted 2 minutes ago
comment by Tiddles (U17634)
posted less than a minute ago
Jeez. Some people are taking one bad result as though it’s the end of the world
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really? im proud of them gr8 run and we go again but that performance was a joke, as i said how many wake up calls does this team need, takes them forever to get going and until now theyve had the luck, today that ran out. Anyway just because theyve been outstanding doesnt mean we cant call them out or w.e when they put in sheite like that, they were sheite for majority of previous games too recently still the persist... Anyway some people need to stop being snowflakes when someone says something not positive or praising lol.
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Nothing wrong with being constructive. It’s the bed wetting that’s a bit tiresome.....

comment by Terminator1 (U1863)
posted 9 minutes ago
comment by The Joker (U22336)
posted 7 minutes ago
comment by Redinthehead - FreeGaza - فلسطين (U1860)
posted 5 minutes ago
“why am I here" when your trying your best to look after someone else's child.

———————
Because if god forbid something was to happen to you or Mrs, that there would be someone who would look after your young uns with the same care you exhibit for this foster child.

All that is needed for evil to prevail is for good men to do nothing
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we're trying our best but sometimes it just feels as though it's not good enough even though it is.

I think we're just too tough on each other tbf
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Mate, that’s something you need to get used to if you’re going to stick at this fostering lark. These kids are more often from troubled backgrounds and have had to deal with all sorts of shiite. You just need to be thick skinned and accept it as just part of the job. If you can’t detach yourself then maybe you need to rethink, for your own sake 👍
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I had a good friend when i was 15 through the end of high school who’s family fostered a brother and sister. They were about 8 years younger than we were.

Didn’t matter what the family did the kids always wanted to go back to their Mum and Dad, despite them not being taken care of by them and the authorities having to step in and remove the kids from the situation.

The parents were still allowed to visit once every few months but it had to be pre arranged and at a neutral place. The amount of times the parents didn’t turn up was astounding, yet the kids still loved them and thought they were the best and how everything would be so much better once they got to go back.

They were simply too young to realise the situation they were in, who their parents were, and who their foster family was. It was always not as good as it would be once Mum and Dad came back.

My friends family had experience fostering before and knew the deal, their viewpoint was basically i don’t care if you don’t want to be here, i don’t care if you hate us, we’re here and we’re going to look after you and ensure you are safe and have the best chance to be a success as can be.

These kids are about to leave high school now and i know their viewpoint on the world has changed. But it honestly takes years and as you say, you have to be thick skinned. Quite often it’s despite what the kid thinks they want rather than what they’re saying.

It’s the knee jerk “spineless lazy caaants” bit that i take issue with inbefore.

They’ve shown time and again they are anything but. Criticise the performance all you want, it was rubbish. But the players at the club have won trophies for us, are going to win the most coveted of all and consistently run a god damn half marathon yet the first bad result and you’re saying “get out of my club”.

You need to chill

comment by Tiddles (U17634)
posted less than a minute ago
It’s the knee jerk “spineless lazy caaants” bit that i take issue with inbefore.

They’ve shown time and again they are anything but. Criticise the performance all you want, it was rubbish. But the players at the club have won trophies for us, are going to win the most coveted of all and consistently run a god damn half marathon yet the first bad result and you’re saying “get out of my club”.

You need to chill
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they have? without hendo or milner holding their hands setting the standards?

theyve been there long enough playing with and watching the likes of hendo and milner week in week out in training etc too yet they get a chance and go out and perform like that. Hendo n Milner sat watching that, hope they've had words.

That said credit to Watford too, they clearly wanted it a lot more and deserved it. If they keep that up hope they stay up.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/boxing/51686907

wilder takes rematch option

Well Hendo just always plays.

It’s like taking VVD out for one game, and then using that as a barometer.

I don’t think having Hendo or Milner out there changes things today, it was just a really off day against a team really on it fighting for survival.

But to say Salah, Firmino, mane, Robbo, VVD or Alisson need Hendo and Milner to “hold their hands” is a joke.

none of them play in mf, it was the mf lack of effort to put pressure on the ball today made it so easy for watford, when you play a high line you need pressure on the ball and with players like deulefeu n sarr if theyre getting picked out eventually theyll punish u.

And thats the point i was making, Milner and Hendo set the standard there... without them it shows how important they are, but these mfs been with them long enough to know whats required when theyre in there to replace them so no excuse when they go out n play like that.

and tbh u call it knee jerk but if thats what theyre going to continue to offer i stick by what i said they can fack off

Ohhhh so our loss had nothing at all to do with our front three failing to be able to control a ball, go past a man, find space, or be any kind of threat in the final third at all?

And it didn’t have anything to do with our defence ball watching frequently allowing Watford players to get in front, not being aware of their surroundings, panicking under pressure, or our fullbacks having their worst delivery in a game I’ve seen in a long time, which is key to how we play?

No it was all on the midfield that loss, for sure.

i said Lovren and Salah were facking useless the whole team were tbf, even VVD. But it was the mf and their lack of effort that pee'd me off the most, thats where Watford hurt us, allowed far too much time, and outfought not only to the 1st but the 2nd and 3rd balls too. our mf is clearly our engine room and today that was pathetic.

Anyway, moving on, be nice to see minamino jones n elliot etc vs Chelsea.

Also as they say you find a lot out about a team with how they respond, recent performances been well below standard. Big games coming thick and fast so im excited to see how they respond.

comment by The Joker (U22336)
posted 1 hour, 33 minutes ago
open letter my tranny mates.

Even though I may not see eye 2 eye with all my tranny posters I still love you because we support the same team and we are all really passionate about our team.

Personally I'm quite stressed out at the mo
I've just had an offer accepted on a house we want to buy, however the only the reason we're doing this is because my son is unhappy with the situation with the foster lad he is sharing a room with.

we love this kid but sometimes its hard to hear " I hate you" and " why am I here" when your trying your best to look after someone else's child.

We're doing the best we can and slowly making progress but it is emotionally draining.

Personally me I know I need to be better and mature person but I love being me .

I'm simplistic and try to be happy and kind-ish to others, It doesn't always translate that way to others though and for that I apologise

Sorry about the name change but I try to use this site a therapy thing type thing for me

love you all





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Been similarly low since my wee guy was diagnosed as autistic. Seemingly all those plans we had for him are out the window and we start again.

Simple things like watching him try to play with the other kids in the neighborhood and seeing the looks on their faces as they just see him as the town weirdo. Crushes the soul.

Knowing that there’s no solutions at the bottom of the bottle but still looking. Man, $jit can be rough.

No words of wisdom for you though. Like you said, emotionally draining. Just remember that mrs joker is probably feeling the same. Family is a team game